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Explore HIV — the science, the history, the policy, the community, and the lived reality. 146 in-depth articles, plus the Quick Answers library, written from 16 years of lived experience and a decade of advocacy work. Read a full guide or find a quick answer.
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U=U explained HIV & love stories Relationships & datingExplore the breakthrough of 1996, then learn about medications used today.
1996: The year that changed everything HIV medications, in plain languageBegin with cure and remission, then explore long-acting treatment and research.
The HIV cure, in plain language Long-acting treatment & research
History & CultureThe visits, the fundraising, and the commitment beyond the camera.
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History & CultureCommunity leadership, care, and change across four nations.
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Advocacy & ImpactWhere the funding goes—and the communities behind the progress.
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Advocacy & ImpactPublic action, reported funding, and the HIV connection.
About 6 min readExplore memorials across the country, the AIDS Memorial Quilt, and Timothy Ray Brown’s bench in Palm Springs.
About 5 min readFind a starting point, choose a check-in, micro-blog, story, or memorial, and think through privacy before sharing.
About 6 min readWhat cure and remission mean, what transplant cases and clinical studies show, and how to read the headlines. Explore the full guide or jump to a topic.
About 19 min readMenopause happens earlier and hits harder for women living with HIV. Hot flashes vs night sweats, HRT and ART, bone density, cardiovascular risk, and what actually helps.
About 30 min readMedication management, appointment coordination, caregiver burnout, HIPAA and shared care planning, respite services, and Florida-specific caregiver supports.
About 26 min readThe VA is one of the largest HIV care systems in America. How VA HIV care works, service connection, HUD-VASH housing, and what veterans have earned.
About 23 min readSSDI vs SSI math, keeping Medicaid while working, ABLE accounts, life insurance for PLHIV, Ryan White eligibility cliffs, and estate planning that protects the people you love.
About 21 min readMaintained viral suppression prevents sexual HIV transmission during conception. Pregnancy, birth, and infant feeding have separate care plans. Learn about preconception care and mixed-status couples.
About 33 min readYou've been undetectable for months. Then a single lab shows a small number. Panic sets in. Most of the time, that's a viral blip — not treatment failure. What it is and what to do next.
About 30 min readMedical marijuana and ART interactions, evidence for appetite, pain, and neuropathy, plus how the Florida medical marijuana card process works for people living with HIV.
About 27 min readOn November 17, 2015, Charlie Sheen went on live television and said he was HIV-positive. What happened next was one of the most significant unplanned public health events in modern HIV history.
About 15 min readAmanda Blake played one of television's most beloved characters for 19 years. She died of AIDS in 1989 — and the world was told it was cancer. Her story is about what happens when stigma is stronger than truth.
About 12 min readHIV symptoms in women are often dismissed, misdiagnosed, or mistaken for something else. Here is what to watch for — by stage, by body system, and by what makes women's experience of this virus different.
About 36 min readHow music held a generation together before medicine could — from dance floors as sanctuary to the songs that became memory.
About 27 min readEligibility up to 400% FPL; Biktarvy and Descovy returned July 1. Premium help is still unavailable. Current benefits, next steps, and the 2027 review.
About 8 min read2027 enrollment dates, income limits, medication and provider checks, and Florida ADAP coordination. Compare total costs and protect continuity of HIV care.
About 16 min readLaws written in 1986 are still on the books, still being enforced. What the statutes actually say, who's been prosecuted, and how to protect yourself.
About 20 min readThe AIDS epidemic, the unclaimed dead, and what a number in a ledger cannot hold. New York City's potter's field during the worst years of the crisis.
About 14 min readTen years of U=U: the science, the community-led movement, and the freedom it can bring to love, sex, and life.
About 32 min readHow pre-exposure prophylaxis works, who it's for, how to access it in Florida, and what the evidence says about its effectiveness.
About 34 min readA calm, honest guide for people who just received an HIV diagnosis — what it means, what happens next, and how to find care and support in Florida.
About 30 min readThe nationwide Ryan White program, state and territory ADAP resources, local enrollment help, medication assistance, and a Florida callout.
About 8 min readThe worst HIV outcomes in Florida aren't in Miami. They're in north-central counties and the Panhandle — where care is hours away, stigma runs deep, and the gaps are widest.
About 12 min readThe medicine works. So why do 1 in 3 people with HIV not reach viral suppression? Stigma, housing, insurance, transportation, distrust — the barriers have names.
About 9 min read1 in 5 new HIV diagnoses are in people 13–24. Nearly half don't know they have it. Whether you're the young person or the parent — here's what you need to know.
About 32 min readMore than half of people with HIV in the US are now 50 or older — on track for 70% by 2030. The medicine kept us alive. The healthcare system still hasn't caught up with what that means.
About 17 min readBefore treatment, 25–30% of babies born to mothers with HIV acquired the virus. Those who survived — now in their 30s and 40s — are known in community as the Dandelions. Today, transmission is below 1%.
About 14 min readGolden Girls. Pedro on The Real World. Philadelphia at the Oscars. Angels in America. Magic Johnson's press conference. The screen, the stage, and the moments that shaped how America understood HIV.
About 7 min read"Are you clean?" Status fields. Disclosure filters. The undetectable conversation. Everything you actually want to know about HIV and dating apps in 2025.
About 10 min readMosquitoes. Toilet seats. You can tell by looking. HIV is a death sentence. Busting 40 years of misinformation with actual science — direct, clear, shareable.
About 21 min readSex with HIV is not a compromise. Undetectable = Untransmittable. PrEP makes acquisition nearly impossible. Pleasure, risk, disclosure, mixed-status relationships — all of it.
About 31 min readRyan White care is available regardless of immigration status. ICE cannot enter treatment rooms without a judicial warrant. Florida's SB 1718 and 2025 enforcement are keeping people from care. Know your rights.
About 15 min read87% of Black Americans identify as Christian. Faith communities sit at the center of the communities most affected by HIV — as both the source of deepest stigma and the most powerful force for healing.
About 10 min readHistorical Florida research shows unequal enforcement, especially in cases involving sex work. Explore the evidence, prevention and care access, and the case for reform that includes sex workers.
About 9 min read70% of people with HIV have experienced housing instability. Homelessness delays entering care by 6 months on average. The data are unambiguous: housing is HIV care.
About 13 min readManufacturer patient assistance programs, copay support, and other pathways to HIV medication access independent of ADAP and insurance.
About 16 min readParts A, B, C, and D explained — 2026 changes, Part D drug coverage, Extra Help, ADAP coordination, Medicaid, and enrollment timing.
About 14 min readHIV stigma is increasing — and it is killing people. Internalized stigma, the disclosure decision, your legal rights, and how to find support.
About 23 min readWomen account for 19% of new HIV diagnoses and are among the most underserved. Transmission, PrEP access, pregnancy, racial disparities, and advocacy.
About 38 min readBlack Americans are 12% of the US population and 38% of new HIV diagnoses. The structural forces driving this disparity — and the communities leading the response.
About 30 min readThe statistics, structural barriers, machismo and stigma, immigration and fear, the PrEP gap, and Florida's urgent reality. Community-centered, bilingual-aware.
About 25 min readGay and bisexual men, transgender women, queer youth, bisexual people, and the structural forces shaping the epidemic. Florida-focused, community-centered.
About 9 min readHormones and HIV medicines, PrEP, mental health, and affirming care. Understand what the studies show, their limits, and how to find support nationally and in Florida.
About 31 min readDepression, anxiety, PTSD, HAND, and the adherence connection. A comprehensive, honest guide to mental health and HIV — and finding affirming care in Florida.
About 32 min readSex, dating, disclosure, serodifferent couples, U=U in practice, and reclaiming intimacy after an HIV diagnosis. An honest community-centered guide.
About 22 min readInjection drug use, harm reduction, syringe services, naloxone, medication-assisted treatment, alcohol and HIV, the SAVA syndemic, and Florida's landscape. Judgment-free.
About 25 min readAn honest, community-centered conversation about chemsex, substance use, HIV prevention, harm reduction, and support resources for LGBTQ people.
About 29 min readDifferent histories, courage, joy, grief, survivor leadership, and practical care. Listen to people who have lived with HIV for many years—and the futures they want to build.
About 21 min readHow HIV shaped music, visual art, theater, film, and literature — the Names Quilt, Angels in America, Philadelphia, Rent, Keith Haring, ACT UP, and the artists we lost.
About 16 min readFlying with HIV medications, country entry restrictions, managing time zones, customs tips, vaccines, travel insurance, and everything you need to travel confidently.
About 19 min readHow HIV criminal laws differ, what the evidence shows, and why reform must protect people with detectable or unknown viral loads too. The current national landscape, the science these laws ignore, and where reform is happening — state by state.
About 15 min readThe federal initiative targeting 57 high-burden jurisdictions — including 7 Florida counties. What it is, what it's accomplished, and what's at risk right now.
About 11 min read25 million lives saved. 20 million people on treatment. Now facing the most serious threat in its history. What PEPFAR is and why the HIV community must defend it.
About 32 min readThe Fourth Circuit reinstated the enlistment ban in February 2026. Three separate legal fights at different stages. What servicemembers and veterans with HIV need to know.
About 8 min read300+ cities worldwide have signed the Paris Declaration. Four Florida cities are in the network. What the 95-95-95 commitment means — and how to hold your city accountable.
About 7 min readFind upcoming Florida gatherings, fundraisers and galas, peer support, community leadership and year-round ways to connect—from the Panhandle to the Keys.
About 17 min readHow ADAP is funded, why state programs face pressure, and how to protect access, with an updated Florida summary and Kevin’s personal statement.
About 27 min readLost your job, insurance, or Medicaid? Step-by-step, plain language: how to protect your HIV care, keep meds covered, and access ADAP, Ryan White, and patient assistance right now.
About 16 min readWhere HIV shame comes from, how it was weaponized, and how the community fought back — from the silence of the 1980s to U=U to the No Shame campaign and TikTok.
About 8 min readThe women who showed up when no one else would — donating blood, staffing hospices, fighting the CDC, and winning the fight to redefine AIDS. Their names belong in every AIDS story.
About 12 min readThe FDA. The New York Stock Exchange. St. Patrick's Cathedral. The White House lawn. How ACT UP stormed every institution that stood between people with AIDS and survival.
About 16 min readIn 1983, a dozen men with AIDS stormed a stage in Denver and read a manifesto that reshaped patient rights worldwide. Most were dead within years. Their words outlived them all.
About 14 min readSix years of silence. 70,000 dead. The press briefing laughs, the C. Everett Koop rebellion, Rock Hudson's visit, and the speech that came too late.
About 11 min readFrom one pill a day to monthly injections to six-month shots — and beyond. Where HIV treatment is headed, what cure research actually shows, and why this decade may be the most important since 1996.
About 31 min readSomeone you love told you they have HIV. You didn't know what to say. What it means, what it doesn't, what to say, and how to show up — for a partner, parent, sibling, or friend.
About 5 min readThe Vancouver conference. Combination therapy. Death rates plummeting 80%. AIDS wards emptying. The year HIV stopped being a death sentence — and what it meant to the people who lived through it.
About 17 min readThe New York Times buried its first AIDS story on page 20. Randy Shilts covered it alone for years. The Bay Area Reporter ran obituaries every week for 17 years — until the day they finally didn't.
About 18 min readKeith Haring. Visual AIDS. The Red Ribbon origin. The NAMES Project Quilt. David Wojnarowicz. Robert Mapplethorpe. Marlon Riggs. How artists bore witness — and changed the world.
About 14 min readSerodifferent couples, what U=U changed about love and intimacy, fictional relationship illustrations, and the science and human side of HIV and love. HIV doesn't determine who you get to love.
About 10 min readPAWS organizations, emotional support during the epidemic, and the research on pets and HIV health outcomes. They stayed when the world turned away.
About 4 min readHeart health is part of HIV care. Understand cardiovascular risk, the updated statin conversation, medication interactions, and questions for your next visit.
About 14 min readOzempic, Wegovy, Mounjaro — millions are taking them. Safety with ART, drug interactions, the Lancet lipohypertrophy trial, compounded product dangers, and what to ask your HIV provider.
About 30 min readYoga and the research behind it. Nutrition. Dental health. Sleep. Supplement safety. And how to build a full care team beyond your HIV provider — from surviving to thriving.
About 19 min readViral load, CD4 count, CD4:CD8 ratio, liver and kidney function, lipids, glucose, Vitamin D, CBC — every number explained in plain language, with a printable reference card for every appointment.
About 44 min readA, B, and C are different viruses. Understand vaccines, test results, hepatitis C cure, liver scarring, medication interactions, and follow-up. Includes a printable visit guide.
About 13 min readPossible HIV exposure within 72 hours? Seek care now. A plain-language guide to the 28-day course, access, follow-up tests, and moving from PEP to PrEP.
About 8 min readEvery current HIV regimen explained — once-daily pills, two-drug options, long-acting injectables, drug classes, treatment resistance, and what Florida ADAP does and doesn't cover right now.
About 17 min readFrom a 1985 blood test with results that took weeks to a free 20-minute oral swab you can do at home tonight. Test types, window periods, at-home kits, free Florida testing, and what to do if you test positive.
About 24 min readBefore HIV had a name, it was already in the blood supply. The hemophilia community, the Ray brothers of Arcadia Florida, Ryan White, Arthur Ashe — and the decades-long fight for accountability that followed a preventable catastrophe.
About 13 min readEvery HIV awareness day, what it marks, and how to use it. National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (Feb 7) · Zero Discrimination Day (Mar 1) · National Women & Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (Mar 10) · National Youth HIV & AIDS Awareness Day (Apr 10) · HIV Vaccine Awareness Day (May 18) · National HIV Testing Day (Jun 27) · National Minority AIDS Awareness Day (Aug 19) · World AIDS Day (Dec 1) · and more.
About 14 min readHe told the world he had AIDS on a Sunday. He was dead by Monday. His voice was one of the greatest in history. His final act was one of the most courageous in the history of the epidemic.
About 13 min readHe announced HIV the same year Freddie Mercury died of it. The world expected him to die. He didn't. His survival — complicated, important, and still unfinished.
About 16 min readHe turned subway walls into protest. He turned his diagnosis into a mission. Keith Haring lived and died with HIV — and left the world changed.
About 13 min readBefore it was safe. Before it was fashionable. She co-founded amfAR, testified before Congress, and used every ounce of her fame to fight a disease the world was ignoring.
About 10 min readSince 1992, he has raised over $600 million for HIV/AIDS through the Elton John AIDS Foundation. He outlived an epidemic that killed his friends — and has never stopped fighting.
About 10 min readIn 1985, she got on her bicycle and delivered a meal to a man dying of AIDS who couldn't feed himself. That single act of grace became one of the most important AIDS service organizations in history.
About 10 min readOn July 25, 1985, he became the first major celebrity to publicly disclose an AIDS diagnosis. Nothing about the epidemic was ever the same.
About 10 min readThe most flamboyantly queer performer in American history died of AIDS on February 4, 1987. His estate denied it. His family denied it. He never disclosed. The cost of that silence was real.
About 8 min readHe acquired HIV through a blood transfusion. He kept it private for years. Then USA Today forced his hand. His final act — turning a forced disclosure into a platform for grace — became one of the most dignified chapters in the history of the epidemic.
About 13 min readPeter Staley’s journey from Wall Street to ACT UP, the fight over AZT pricing, Treatment Action Group, and PrEP4All.
About 5 min readHe co-founded GMHC in 1982 and was forced out in 1983. He founded ACT UP in 1987 from pure rage. He was difficult and often wrong about people — and right about everything that mattered.
About 6 min readWojnarowicz, Hemphill, Monette, Assotto Saint, Marlon Riggs, Melvin Dixon. Six writers who made the American AIDS literary canon — full bios, books, poems, and pull quotes linked to primary texts.
About 14 min readIn 1989, Dázon Dixon Diallo was 24 years old and watching Black women get left out of the AIDS response entirely. She founded SisterLove in Atlanta that July. She is still fighting 35 years later.
About 8 min readIn 1985, a woman named Ganga Stone started delivering meals on her bicycle to a man dying of AIDS. That single act became one of the most important AIDS service organizations in history.
About 11 min readA single doxycycline pill within 72 hours of sex can reduce syphilis risk by 87%. One of the most significant advances in sexual health in years — and most people have never heard of it.
About 13 min readGay and bisexual men account for ~70% of new U.S. HIV diagnoses. The biology, network effects, racial disparities, PrEP, U=U, and the community response.
About 30 min readHIV rates in U.S. prisons are 3–5x the general population. The care gaps inside, the re-entry crisis, racial justice, and what needs to change.
About 12 min readIt began on a kitchen floor in 1987. Today it holds 50,000+ panels and remains the largest piece of community folk art in history — and it's still growing.
About 11 min readCreated in 12 minutes in 1991 by Visual AIDS. By the Oscars it was on every lapel in Hollywood. The full story of HIV's most recognizable symbol — including the White House tradition that ended.
About 9 min readDecember 1st. Every year since 1988. The world's first international health day — landmarks go red, names are read, and the epidemic that some would prefer to forget is made impossible to ignore.
About 9 min readMonth by month: what to expect medically, emotionally, and practically. The labs, the milestones, the emotional arc, and what most people wish someone had told them.
About 10 min readEmployment rights under the ADA, workplace disclosure decisions, health insurance, disability benefits, and returning to work after diagnosis or illness.
About 34 min readThe most common quality-of-life complaints from PLHIV — and the least talked about clinically. What drives them, what makes them worse, and what actually helps.
About 35 min readWhere treatment, prevention, and cure research stand right now. What's changed, what funding threats are real, and why 32,000 new U.S. diagnoses per year is still a crisis.
About 17 min readEverything you need to know about HIV research trials — how to find them, paid vs. unpaid, how to enroll, what ATIs mean, and your rights. A plain-language decoder for ClinicalTrials.gov.
About 18 min read52% of all new U.S. HIV diagnoses. 38% of the population. The structural forces, the healthcare deserts, the pharma investments, and the community response — written by someone who lives here.
About 17 min readFood insecurity directly undermines HIV treatment — affecting adherence, viral suppression, and immune recovery. The biology, the programs, and how to ask for help.
About 21 min readBeyond the pill bottle. Ryan White pays for housing, food, transportation, case management, and legal help — the supports that make treatment actually work. Here's what to ask for and where to start.
About 7 min readFree and low-cost HIV testing, PrEP, treatment, and Ryan White clinics — plus how to find them near you. National finders and Florida-specific tools, all in one place.
About 4 min readPlain-language answers to the questions people actually ask about HIV — prevention, testing, treatment, transmission, living with HIV, support, Florida resources, and legal questions. Every answer sourced from CDC, NIH, and HRSA.
Documented AI uses, research, and ethical guidance in HIV: who is doing the work, what the evidence shows, and where human oversight and community voices matter.
About 21 min readEven with an undetectable viral load, decades of HIV shape how the heart, kidneys, bones, brain, gut, and immune system age. What the research shows about comorbidities, what to monitor, and how to work with your care team.
About 35 min readPeople with HIV were barred from donating organs for decades. The HOPE Act changed that. 500+ successful transplants later, kidney and liver transplants between HIV-positive donors and recipients are now standard care.
About 3 min readCalling someone "clean" implies people with HIV are dirty. "Confession" frames disclosure as wrongdoing. A plain-language guide to person-first HIV language — what to retire, what to say instead, and why it matters.
About 16 min readHow people fall out of HIV care, what happens after treatment is interrupted, and why returning should be easier than the system makes it. Written from inside the Florida coverage crisis.
About 36 min read40.8 million people living with HIV. 1.3 million new infections in 2024. A funding crisis threatening decades of hard-won progress. The state of the global epidemic with current UNAIDS and WHO data.
About 7 min readWhat these organizations actually do, how the 95-95-95 framework works, and why decisions made in Geneva shape HIV care in Florida and everywhere else.
About 18 min readTwo-thirds of all people living with HIV live in sub-Saharan Africa. The fight for generic drug access, community health workers, the role of PEPFAR, and what the 2025 funding crisis means.
About 7 min readEngland has met the 95-95-95 targets six years running. NHS PrEP reaches 111,000 people. Opt-out testing. London's turnaround. And what the US can learn from all of it.
About 8 min readCare, connection and community across all 67 counties. Explore ten regions, local organizations, access barriers, data, support and Florida events.
About 19 min readYour rights to care regardless of immigration status. Ryan White, public charge, overcoming fear, and how Haitian, Latino, African, and farmworker communities are affected.
About 13 min read110,000+ people get PrEP by telehealth. Free, private, shipped to your door. How telehealth is changing HIV care, the providers offering it, and how to get started.
About 24 min readMost people with HIV feel nothing for years. That silence isn't safety — it's how the virus spreads undetected. A plain-language guide to every stage, the window period, and what to do.
About 8 min readTwo kids from Michigan moved to New York and watched their entire world die. How Madonna and her brother Christopher lived through the AIDS epidemic — and what she did about it.
About 11 min readHis name was Gaëtan Dugas. He didn't bring AIDS to America — HIV was already here a decade before he was diagnosed. The full story of the most dangerous myth in HIV history, and the 2016 science that finally cleared him.
About 10 min readAAPI people have the lowest HIV testing rates of any racial group and face layered stigma that keeps them from care. The model minority myth isn't just wrong — it's lethal.
About 15 min readFind HIV advocacy training, conference scholarships, free online courses, Florida training dates, and youth awards, with eligibility and application status.
About 19 min readHow Black and Latino LGBTQ+ communities built the ballroom scene as a sanctuary — and how AIDS devastated and forever shaped that world.
About 14 min readThe epidemic in Haiti, Jamaica, Trinidad, the Dominican Republic, and the Caribbean diaspora in Florida. Stigma, access, culture, and resources.
About 9 min readLanguage access barriers, Deaf culture and disclosure, Gallaudet's Left Behind exhibition, DeafCAN, and how to find accessible HIV care.
About 9 min readOral manifestations, disclosure, CD4 and dental risk, Ryan White dental coverage, Florida resources, and medication interactions explained.
About 10 min readKnow your legal rights living with HIV. SSI vs SSDI explained, Medicare vs Medicaid timing, the return-to-work trap, and Florida disability resources.
About 15 min readHurricanes, power outages, and natural disasters don't pause HIV care. A plain-language guide to protecting your medications, staying in care, and building a disaster plan that works for you.
About 16 min readWhat it is, why it happens even with an undetectable viral load, how it's diagnosed, and what helps.
About 9 min readPeople with intellectual and developmental disabilities are sexually active, face higher rates of sexual abuse, and are almost entirely absent from HIV prevention programming. Written for them, their families, and the people who support them.
About 13 min readAmerican Indian and Alaska Native communities face HIV disparities that are undercounted, under-resourced, and rooted in federal policy failures. A deep look at IHS gaps, Two-Spirit identity, and Florida's tribal nations.
About 12 min readHIV-associated nephropathy, ART-related kidney effects, monitoring kidney function, and protecting your kidneys long-term.
About 13 min readHIV peer navigators, linkage-to-care specialists, and case managers explained — what they do, why they matter, and how to find (or become) one. 2026 guide.
About 5 min readCauses, symptoms, the difference between HIV-associated and drug-induced neuropathy, treatment options, and living with chronic nerve pain.
About 10 min readRecovery from substance use with HIV — MAT and ART interactions, 12-step complications, HIV-specific recovery programs, adherence in early sobriety, the SAVA syndemic, and Florida resources.
About 12 min readThe 30 days after release from incarceration are among the most dangerous for HIV-positive people. A plain-language guide to medications, Medicaid, housing, and rebuilding care after incarceration.
About 12 min readWhy PLHIV experience high rates of insomnia, how inflammation and medications affect rest, sleep apnea, fatigue vs sleep, and practical interventions.
About 11 min readPractical volunteer roles — nationally and in Florida — for anyone who wants to show up for people living with HIV. What you can do, where to go, and why it matters more than ever in 2026.
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